Lists with This Book. This book is not yet featured on Listopia. Community Reviews. Showing Rating details. All Languages. More filters. Sort order. Andre rated it it was ok Oct 17, Brandale Randolph rated it it was amazing Aug 10, Katherine Wms marked it as to-read Feb 14, There are no discussion topics on this book yet. I sm still hurting like badly deep down and walk around trying to jide this pain. I hate my life, but I have wot ked so hard toown my home, take care of myself and my child. I Hate for ber to see me like this and I hate feeling kike this.
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He took away my dignity, mu self esteem and he will never alologize. He tells everyone I stalk him, yet he stalks me. My life is a mess. So today we are no longer in contact which is a good thing. I am entering my recovery phase. I was with my soon to be ex husband for nearly 28 years.
He was that dream guy, charming and constantly attentive. He made sure that he knew me better than anyone had, little did I know that it would be used against me for years and years. One day following the birth of our oldest daughter, it was like a switch flipped. I had post-partum depression and he decided to jump into that crazy pool. He disappeared for days, and of course that was only the beginning. It would come in waves. If he felt me pulling away emotionally — he would once again be the man I fell in love with.
From the outside, everyone thought we had the perfect marriage.
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When our youngest was born — I progressed to post partum psychosis and cared for a baby with health issues and a terminally ill mother. His abuse went on steroids. It was easy to convince me of any problems rested solely on my shoulders. He wove such logical webs — he knew what to say to lure me in emotionally. I was doomed. He made it impossible for me to progress easily.
Jobs were great unless they interrupted any portion of his life. The kids and I were only valid when needed. We spent years waiting to be important. It became apparent that the time, the energy and the money was spent elsewhere — ah, yes, the gambling. So, now I was dealing with someone with a Narcissistic personality disorder AND an extreme compulsive gambling problem. Until I had a life-threatening health scare did I start to pull the pieces together. I filed for divorce a year and a half ago. I have been in the process ever since.
I have committed the ultimate sin against a Narcissist, I have publicly denounced him. I am no longer pliable at least from his perception. It has been brutal to myself and to my two girls.
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I have to believe in myself and have the faith that this process is necessary to heal. The moment he was served with the papers, he moved in with another woman and her daughter and stopped making sure that his own girls were taken care of. It was more important to punish me for knowing the truth. He has given my girls a gift — they want nothing whatsoever to do with him, no visits, no texts, nothing.
They and I are better for it. Let the healing begin. I am in No Contact with a man I met seven months ago. Three weeks now! The first three months were fun, enjoyable and seductive. Then he began to subtly change and I began to feel anxious and my instincts were screaming. The final blow was when my father almost died and was in serious condition for ten days in the hospital. When I reestablished contact, he never asked how I was or how my father was. When I turned up the flame underneath him and asked him if he could step up when things were rough, he turned into a little boy and made promises that he could, and he did………………..
Then he made sure I found out he was seducing another woman, younger and richer, and he accused me of spying on him when the evidence came streaming over my newsfeed on Facebook because of his actions. I ended the relationship. He asked if we could be friends on Facebook. I thought: Why not? This is going nowhere. After a few days of silence, he came back and virtually attacked me on chat I know most people will not know what this is about but it is real. That was it. I waited two days and spoke with him only when he contacted me and always cut the conversation short.
He started acting sick, wanting sympathy. I was waiting for him to leave the country for two weeks. The day before he left, I dumped him for the final time and thanked him for reminding me that there were predators in the world and I would remember that for now on. I have never met such a manipulative, selfish, and crazy making man in my life and hope I never run aground with one again.
My sincere condolences to those who are trapped by their abuser by marriage or children. My ex narcissist would tell me I was bi- polar I needed professional help, that I needed to learn how to treat a man. You will, it is all apart of it. This waiting around you are doing is exactly the issue. Move on and hope that you never do hear again. A month and a half later and I did hear from him.
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I told him to go straight to hell never again in my life. I am so pleased for you for your reaction. One bit of advice, by acting aggressive to them implies that they still have the hold over you. You can never hurt them, their feelings. They are incapable. But good on you for resisting it was almost a certain move on his half huh! The less you react and the less time you have for them the less they have to play with ;.
I am a male and trying to figure out with my new found love, who ultimately, the more i am being exposed to her, and the more i am reading at web, is turning out to be a narcissist. What in that case? If your fairer sexed love turns out to be one? Hi Farhat. Women can indeed be as narcissistic as men, sometimes worse. I have been with my man for over 3 years he used to be abusive in the past.
He even cheated on me and I took him back three times. She finally moved on with someone else. I have been living with him for 8 months now. He hides me from his daughter. I met her when she was sick and she liked me. She is now 9. It is his time with his daughter.
So I told him I am not with him anymore. He got mad and said I am drama.
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